Friday, February 25, 2011
.:. Attractive .:.
You can't choose who to crush on, but you can choose whether to continue it.
Thisis a topic that applies to both girls and boys. We're all looking for the perfect one for us, even though perfect in itself is an understatement. And during this search through the crowd of millions other humans whom we share this land with, some of us might mature and start discovering actual qualities in the opposite partners that we are looking for.
But somehow in a relationship, far and apart, no matter how different every single one of us might be, no matter how stark the characteristics of our partner should differ, one thing is always the same, in that we look for the attractive ones. True not all place high value on outward appearance, but its definitely a factor that all has considered/ are considering. Guys look for the girls that look the most beautiful, either looking hot or cute to whichever their preference, while girls look for the guys who are handsome or hunky. And in turn, in order to "survive", we try to look our best. Be it using your own willpower to do PT or to go on diets, or spending money to buy very beautiful dresses/shirts, even to the extreme of plastic surgery, in the end it all serves One purpose, to attract the opposite gender.
So what's all the deal about finding an attractive other half? Yes I know that it dosen't hurt to have a very pretty gf walking around with you, but I mean what's the true meaning behind it all. In the end, its all just outward appearance only. So if you work very hard and then get the prettiest girl in the school...then what next? She's pretty, that's the end of story liao. The most you get is when u wake up (assuming the one u marry is your gf eventually) and you see a pretty face Everyday. But won't you get sian of it? I mean ya a pretty face's a pretty face, but that's not all ma.
In the end, its the character that we all want. We're looking for a partner, not a statue. We want someone we can talk with, someone on the same frequency as us, who might not share our beliefs in life but accepts it, someone whom we love. Love is a big word, enccompassing more meanings than I could ever type out here, and while I know that looks play a part in love as well, but I dare put my foot down and say its Definitely not a determining factor.
But that still dosen't solve the fact of why we're all looking for chio bu/chio gongs out there. In the end after all this talk I can't pinpoint any specific reason why still. Maybe its cos of our instincts, something inherent in us? I really have no idea...
if you're the one I'm looking for
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She's the one I look at,
who holds my gaze,
however dodgy it seems.
But you are different,
for I don't look at your eyes,
instead you.
I can't talk to her,
like the way I do to you,
maybe that's why.
I am closer to you,
for there's no awkardness,
could that be why.
Sometimes I tink,
I try too hard towards her,
which is why.
There were times i wished,
the places were swapped,
but I know that's wrong.
It's because you're unlike her,
or maybe she's unlike you,
so that's why.
You're just not her,
because you dun have to be,
because you are not.
And that's the reason why,
I dare to call you,
my pd.
:)
Revealed on [5:53 AM]
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