Wednesday, March 24, 2010
.:. Asking out VS Break up .:.
This very short topic is brought about by certain recent events around me and a certain TV show I jus saw.
In the show, the guy invited his gf to a certain romantic restaurant, but the moment the girl arrived, she said she wanted to break up with him. And as I as eating my dinner (with my back facing the TV), all I hear for the next few minutes is the girl jus keep talking on and on trying to explain why she thinks they are not suited for each other and thus should break up. So...
From a guy's perspective, we always find it hard to confess to the girl that we like. What if she were to not think the same way, what if I get rejected, what if the friendship gets affected...etc etc a long list of what ifs. So sometimes we just wish things were easier where by there are clear signs that the girl likes us too and viola, done.
But normally in a relationship, isn't break ups done mostly by girls? (or so thats what i tink la). So if we guys find it hard to confess our feelings to them, they too shd find it hard to break the news to us guys ba? Why they feel we shd break up, what are the reasons, what are our (guys) reactions, how to end the once so merry relationship etc etc...also another list of questions marks that its now the girls' turn to ponder through.
So in conclusion, while the guys find it hard to start the relationship, I guess it shd be equally hard for girls to end it rite?
Of course this does not apply to those who are happily in love with each other, and lets hope it continues that way :)
Disclaimer: I am currently unattached (and thus cant hv experienced a break up), so nothing in here is related me, its jus my thoughts n feelings bout the matter
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