Tuesday, January 19, 2010
.:. Phases of life .:.
Last fri met up with wendy, zhi yong and sushan for random dinner at chomp chomp. Then mich and sharon joined us, with mich feeding us some kueh. According to zhiyong, whose maid is an expert in such kuehs, the texture is fail but taste ok. We settled at some playground thingy, sat there staring at stars, and went for super expensive yoghurt which was shared by 3 ppl lolz. Then we seperated, walking to mich house, then sushan and wendy to bus stop, leaving me and zhi yong to walk to lorong chuan mrt. Then on the way we were talking like bout phases of life...
4 phases of life includes:
1) Studying.
2) NS and uni (might be getting a gf)
3) Chionging of career and marriage
4) Retirement
So ya for us these past 18 years of what we could remember is studying, studying and more studying if u get what i mean. Its like the focus of our life is tudying onli. No doubt we do insert bits and pieces of fun, friends and family inside, but its undeniable that most of these 18 years is studying. And then looking back, I feel that these 18 years are already quite long, really. While days can go by very fast for us, like A levels is over after so much anticipation and we are just waiting for results now, somehoww the 18 years seems very long. Sometimes when looking back, i feel mentally tired. Like is this really what i want, what i should be doing...
And then looking into the future, 3 phases of life more to go. If now i'm feeling like this, what's coming? With onli uni as the course of studying, it leaves one with anticipation of what the next phase of non-studying as a focus would be like, maybe work? But anticipation aside, will it be as tiring, or more fufilling...?
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