Monday, February 16, 2009
.:. Relationship .:.
Happy belated Valentines Day to all couples and friends out there. Ya i noe this post is late. Vday, the day where ppl with crushes could onli stare in hopes of having to courage to confess, where couples get to celebrate together and where rejected ppl could onli be sad(not targeting any1 here). And i spent it at home reviding for block test...sad to max!!!
Fri was pre-vday. So basically go sch...chat with friends on vday plans. Then girls starting giving out presents to everyone in class. Kinda not use to it. Hey dun blame me, i've been in a boy since for 10 years...so vday is lik any other day to me.
A normal vday in sch for me...
Me: Yoz
Friend: Hihi
Me: Sianz...later got test
Friend: Ya lor
End of day...
Me: BB
Friend: BB
Yup tats basically it. Boring! But dun get the wrong idea. I m very appreciative to those who gave gifts. Thks lots, especially to those who took time to wrap, make cards or food :) Got a special gift, a card with me drawn with long hair...and i look cool in it. Total opposite of actual me haha.
Now onto main topic. This has been going through my mind quite often in the past week. All bcos of a certain some1 who encouraged me to do something. And then Boon Bin started to say he will help me look for a compatible GF in class :0. Not to forget Ryan;s 2nd que.
So bcos of tat, I've been thinking. When ppl look for GF, is it better to find 1 who is compatible, in the sense where both share the same interest, good for u? This is on the premise tat since both ppl have the same interests, they would get along well with no short of similar topics to talk about. Imagine u have some1 whom u can have a heart-to-heart talk bout things u really enjoy, wouldn't tat be special. Both of u would get to do things together everyday. Probably, both of u could have the same characteristics. And tat makes it even more compatible. For me, spending hours together some1 jus sitting down and assembling a model we both love would certainly be a great thing to do.
However, as the saying goes "opposite poles attract". Which sometimes make me think tat maybe finding a GF who does not share the same interest as u could be possible as well. Practically speaking, to find some1 of the same interest and tat u like him/her in this vast Singapore is kinda difficult. When 2 ppl with different interest are together, they get to share their interest with one another, hopefully the other party would understand the love for it too. Also, 2 ppl of different characteristics would certainly complement each other. I dun tink we can stand facing another of us everyday rite??? Imagine yr partner is able to remind u of yr carelessness, yr partner able to keep u calm when yr angry, wouldn't it be ns? For me, spending hours having a heart-to-heart to talk on things tat makes us both happy would be enjoyable to do as well.
So in the end, wat makes 2 ppl ge together...i still have no idea. Love is said to blind, which means the above i jus mentioned is useless, but to a certain extent i believe praticality comes into play as well. Hmm...or is it bcos i have never been hopelessly in love b4 to experience wat it feels lik. Oh well...
In the end, BB's search continues(lolz) while Ryan's 2nd que remain unanswered. She could be somewhere around me, somewhere in Singapore, or somewhere in the world...
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